Smooth Summer Transitions: FamilyWise Tips for Parents and Kids

As summer begins, you may find your home busier, and fuller, with kids at home all day. Whether you’re searching for childcare, rides to day camp, or pulling together activities to do at home, finding balance and a new routine can be difficult for parents. And with 48% of parents sharing that their stress overwhelms them, finding strategies to manage the summer transition is even more important. 

FamilyWise staff shared what they have learned from participants and from their experiences with their own families. Beyond the challenges that come with a shift in routine, there can be financial barriers as well.  Finding free/low-cost activities, shouldering the additional cost of groceries without meals from school, and managing the high cost of childcare can make summer break especially stressful for families.  

The good news is that there are many strategies and resources that can make the transition easier.

FamilyWise Parent Support Services Program Manager Erin Hinrichs shared how she helps her children make the transition:  “I create a task list for each kid that includes a few daily hygiene items (brush teeth, shower/bath), some household helper items (pick up sticks in the yard, made your bed, wipe down countertops) and some enrichment activities (read to pet for 20 minutes, play outside). I’ll ask them to add a few of their own ideas as well. Once they complete their tasks, then I’m open to requests for playdates with neighbor kids or a bit of downtime with a cartoon/video game.” This routine provides both structured and free time to balance the day.  

Chief Program Officer Britt Seidel highlighted not only the importance of routine, but also in building community connections. “Connect with neighbors and school friends to create some reprieve with carpooling or play dates.” Having a support network can help ease the burden of the logistics of childcare and transportation and can also provide the entertainment and connection that children normally get in school. Being willing to ask for help can also give parents space for their own self-care and free time. 

“Join sports or community recreation to make connections in community and utilize community centers and parks,” added Katie Bierch, Parent Support Services Program Manager.

To address financial barriers, staff suggested a variety of opportunities to get assistance with clothing, food, and educational entertainment. “Local community centers, parks and rec and your school district have affordable and sometimes free options – look into scholarships for camps,” said Britt. Taking advantage of public spaces like parks and libraries during summer months can provide free ways for families to have fun together. Katie also recommended connecting with parks and schools about summer lunch programs and finding local organizations that can support additional food and clothing needs.  

While transitions can be tough, having strategies for success can help not only support kids but also reduce the stress on the parent and make for new ways for families to grow and connect. 

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